Week 21: #52 Ancestors – At the Cemetery
By Eilene Lyon
Many of my farming ancestors led stable, quiet lives that can be hard to document. But some relatives had a flamboyant existence. One of these was my 2nd great-granduncle, George Albert Cutting, brother of my ancestor Arthur N. Cutting. George’s travels spanned the continent, he married three times, and he eschewed farming to be a jeweler and optician.
George was born in Vermont in 1856 and moved with his family to southern Minnesota when he was 10 years old.1 His future wife, Nora V. Hutchison, lived nearby in Hesper, Iowa.2

George and Nora married in 1878.3 They had two sons together, the first dying as an infant. They buried this unnamed child with George’s grandfather, Jonas Cutting, in Winona, Minnesota.4 George, Nora and their son, Clyde, continued living in Winona until about 1900.
The events of 1899 or 1900 are unclear. Nora moved to La Crosse, Wisconsin. There, she gave George’s name to the census taker in 1900, though he was not living with her.5 The city directory lists her as his widow.6

George, however, was actually in Sonora, California, living with a much-younger woman named “May.”7 Her given name was actually Inez L. Ascott, but she went by the nickname “Mae.” She and George apparently met in Winona and ran off to California together. I’ve been unable to locate a marriage record for them.
George and Inez lived in Sacramento for a couple years, where George took up the optical trade, then moved to Portland, Oregon. The couple appears to have been happy together until Inez died in 1907 at the age of 34.8

It was this occasion that led George to purchase a lot in the River View Cemetery in Portland. He paid $150 for the lot, which contains six separate burial plots.9 The cemetery is one of the finest in the country, established by Portland’s founding fathers and occupying a beautiful, wooded hillside overlooking the Willamette River.
George did not mourn long before marrying a third time. In 1908, George was 52 years old when he wed 25-year-old widow, Bertha (Munson) Sergeant.10 Bertha lost her first husband, Bert Sergeant, after less than a year of marriage. Bert was a veteran of the Spanish-American War and died of meningitis after returning to the Philippines in 1905 for unknown reasons.11
George and Bertha moved back and forth between Portland and San Joaquin County, California, over the next eight years. They had a son, George Bert Cutting, in 1910. Tragically, young George died at the age of two.12 They brought his body to River View in Portland for burial, but never placed a monument on his grave.
Notices in the Portland newspaper hint that shortly after they married, George and Bertha struggled financially. Perhaps it was the strain of losing a child, or maybe the lack of money, but George and Bertha divorced about 1915 or 1916.

Late in life, his health failing, George moved to Sacramento to live with ex-wife Nora and son Clyde. He died there February 7, 1928.13 Clyde never married nor had children, so George left no descendants.
The mystery is what happened to the burial plots at River View, and why isn’t George buried there? My investigation revealed that George was cremated in Sacramento and his remains were shipped to Portland. The trail ends there – no one knows who received the shipment on the Portland end.
Three of the six cemetery plots are occupied: Baby George, Inez Cutting, and Bertha’s sister, Martha Munson. The three remaining plots have sat vacant for over a century, but thanks to this research, have now been claimed (for later use) by living relatives of Uncle George.
Feature image: River View Cemetery, Portland, Oregon. (E. Lyon 2013)
- Census records reveal that George’s younger sister, Mary Elizabeth Cutting, was born in Minnesota in 1866, giving an approximate date for the family’s move. ↩
- Eleonora Hutchinson. Year: 1860; Census Place: Hesper, Winneshiek, Iowa; Page: 872 – via Ancestry.com. AND Nora Hutchinson. Year: 1870; Census Place: Hesper, Winneshiek, Iowa; Roll: M593_426; Page: 186B – via Ancestry.com. ↩
- Geo. A. Cutting and Nora Hutchinson. Ancestry.com. Iowa, U.S., Select Marriages Index, 1758-1996 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2014. ↩
- Personal visit to Woodlawn Cemetery in Winona, Minnesota, on Sept. 30, 2012. ↩
- Nora V. Cutting. Year: 1900; Census Place: La Crosse Ward 14, La Crosse, Wisconsin; Page: 7; Enumeration District: 0081; FHL microfilm: 1241795 – via Ancestry.com. ↩
- Mrs. Nora Cutting. La Crosse, Wisconsin City Directory, 1900. U.S., City Directories, 1822-1995 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2011. ↩
- George Cutting. Year: 1900; Census Place: Sonora, Tuolumne, California; Page: 1; Enumeration District: 0124; FHL microfilm: 1240116 – via Ancestry.com. ↩
- “Inzell” Cutting death notice. Morning Oregonian. (Portland, OR) June 6, 1907. ↩
- River View Cemetery Assn. to George A. Cutting. The Oregon daily journal. (Portland, OR) July 8, 1907. ↩
- State of Oregon. Oregon, Marriage Indexes, 1906-1924, 1946-2008. Portland, OR, USA: Oregon Health Division, Center for Health Statistics. Oregon, U.S., Marriage Indexes, 1906-2009 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc, 2000. ↩
- Bert O. Sergeant. Ancestry.com. U.S., Army, Register of Enlistments, 1798-1914>1904 Jul – 1905 Dec>L-Z>image 402 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2007. ↩
- River View Cemetery burial permit No. 6397 for George Bert Cutting. Signed by George A. Cutting on July 31, 1912. Contains both birth and death information. ↩
- George Albert Cutting death notice. Sacramento Bee, February 8, 1928, p. 5. AND George A. Cutting. California, U.S., Death Index, 1905-1939 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2013. ↩
I really enjoy your posts about your ancestors, Eilene! This one hit home because I had a great uncle, Robert George Plowman, who was a bit of a rogue. He left his first wife (no evidence of divorce) and went to Cuba with a married woman. He claimed on his passport they were married. He lived for years in Cuba and Puerto Rico but eventually returned to the US. He purchased a grave plot in Miami for himself and his second “wife” but only he is buried there. She’s buried in St. Louis with the son from her earlier marriage.
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Definitely some parallels there! I have no idea if George ever got officially divorced from Nora or legally wed to Mae (Inez). Perhaps he was a bigamist when he married Bertha. Hard to say. I was really surprised that his ashes got sent to Portland, but weren’t interred in his cemetery lot.
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That is a mystery! I hope eventually you’ll solve it!
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I wonder what he was thinking when he bought the six plots…perhaps he was hoping for more children or Clyde having a family. Does it seem unusual that Bertha’s sister was buried there?
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Bertha’s sister died rather young and was buried in this cemetery before Bertha married George. They had her dug up and moved to George’s lot! I’ve never found out what happened to Bertha after she split with George. She must have originally planned to be buried there with both Georges and her beloved sister.
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Bertha was still young when they divorced, perhaps she remarried.
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I would think so, too, but have not found a record of a marriage or anything else. She ended up with a property in Portland. Maybe I can eventually trace her through real estate.
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No doubt, you will eventually find out!
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A fascinating tale! The Goff burial plot in Guthrie Center, Iowa, was bought for their daughter who was in her twenties when she died in 1922, a daughter-in-law who died of mumps in 1924 four days after childbirth, three Wilson infants (grandchildren) who died during the Depression, Sherd and Laura Goff themselves, and two sons who never married but had their bodies shipped back to Iowa (from Florida) to have their sister Leora Wilson bury them! Guess I need to write a post about this, huh!
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I don’t think we often discuss this business of buying cemetery lots/plots and who’s going to be using them.
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George was a Page Six personality back when such a thing was unheard of.
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As in gossip column? He must have been quite the charmer.
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Yes indeed.
I wonder, who would play him in a movie?
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He has a sort of Richard Gere look to me.
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You’re right.
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Fascinating bit of family history! It seems that the more questions about our ancestors we answer, the more questions are raised.
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That is the truth of it. I’m working on a story that arose from a photo I bought at the antique store – a 6-year-old in Crawford, Nebraska. It’s connected me to a whole bunch of Four Corners history and a 5th cousin of mine, and it keeps going on and on.
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Your latest story sounds intriguing!! I hope to hear more.
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Well, I don’t want to write a book, but maybe I can get it into blog shape. That’s what I’m aiming for.
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I’d be happy with a blog post. 🙂
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Will do!
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Wonderful story! It reminds me of a phrase an old boss used to say. “Women mourn. Men replace.”
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Ooo. That’s cold! And then Nora took him in at the end. I’ll always wonder about that. A lot of history between those two.
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It is cold but kind of true from my experience. As for your story, there’s something to be said for unanswered questions and intrigue!
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Gotta let the imaginations run free!
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Do you know where in Vermont George was born? Just curious.
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Shelburne, Chittenden County.
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Fascinating as usual. A child of five months with no name chilled me. And I had to flip back after reading the Richard Gere comment – I see the point!
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Yes, that is an odd thing. They must have expected the child to die, but not giving it a name?! I don’t get that at all.
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I thought having the child baptised would have been very important. My father was a hospital chaplain for a while when I was a child, and the phone going in the middle of the night was often because he was called in to christen a dying new born.
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I know that George’s father was a Quaker and maybe his mother, but have not found an affiliation for George.
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Great story, Eilene. George certainly had a life filled with tragedies and lots of women. So Nora took him back in the end. He must have been quite a charmer.
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I expect he really was charming. I’m sure there’s much more to the story about him and Nora.
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Maybe you will find it!
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You told George’s story with such compassion…he lived quite a life. TY for sharing this unusual story of an ancestor who was not “at the cemetery.”
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Thanks for reading and commenting, Marian. I have a big soft place in my heart for all my ancestors and relatives, no matter their foibles.
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I enjoyed your story. I, too, have an ancestor who purchased a large plot but is nowhere to be found. It’s a gg grandfather, who appeared a few days before his marriage, when he converted to Catholicism. He marries, has children, life seems good, and in 1905, a month before the census, his wife dies. He is gone from the family home by the time of the 1905 census and I haven’t been able to find anything about his life pre-conversion or post-widowerhood. But Vincent, the cemetery caretaker, told me the empty grave is mine if I want it.
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I felt that the River View Cemetery had excellent record-keeping, so my feeling is that they did not receive George’s ashes, but I can’t help wondering if it somehow slipped through the cracks and he actually is in one of the “empty” plots. If you like your gg grandfather’s plot, go for it!
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George ran off with Inez? Oh the names, the stories you can conjure from them. But back to reality… you are doing great attempting to find the graves but maybe record keeping in cemeteries wasn’t so sharp back then?
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The cemetery sounds fabulous – I don’t know why you wouldn’t be buried there if you already had a plot, unless he was a bit like my grandparents. My grandma bought a mausoleum vault for two because she didn’t like the thought of being put in the ground, but my grandpa chose to be buried in a different (older) cemetery next to his parents because that plot was already paid for (as was the one next to my grandma, but the other plot pre-dated that). So maybe George had a similarly complicated situation.
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Hmmm. That’s a thought. His older brother is buried in Tigard. But given that his wife and infant son are in his lot at River View, I’d bet that’s where he intended to end up.
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River View seems to be an exception. They have one of the largest endowments in the country – right from its inception. They astonished me with the records they have.
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A mystery indeed…where did those ashes go? Was there anyone related to the family who might have received them?
Wonderful you have a photo of George – I can quite see why he was married three times. He looks like a charmer 🙂
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He had some nephews in the area. His ex-wife, perhaps (I still don’t know what happened to her). It makes the most sense that they were shipped to the cemetery in Portland. But their meticulous records would indicate they never got there.
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Wonder if the nephews decided to scatter the ashes rather than having them interred.
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Apparently scattering ashes was not something done back then. I’m not sure when that practice started. Maybe he was “ahead of his time”!
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[I apologize for my tardiness in commenting Eilene – we had a computer crash at work that has wreaked havoc on my work life as well as encroached bigtime on my personal time. I am still ten days behind in Reader but aim to catch up a little at a time.] You have fascinating relatives. There’s a “plot” for a mystery novel. George, the optician and jeweler, looks stylish with his rounded shirt collar and bright tie plus his rimless spectacles.
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Yes, that photo must have been like an advertisement for his business! Sorry to hear about the computer crash – what a drag. You certainly shouldn’t take it upon yourself to worry about catching up on blogs. Real life concerns are always a good excuse to disappear from here for a while.
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Indeed! He was very debonair looking. The computer issue lingers and has caused a lot of extra work for me from the data lost. I was confident I could catch up, but may have to jump ahead as I’m way behind again. I wanted to give an explanation as I’ve tried to stay current, even a few days behind, but ten days behind in Reader may necessitate otherwise.
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Take it easy.🤗
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Thanks Eilene. Joni and a few others have suggested to just move to current Reader and mention I’m doing so in my next post. The computer issues linger on and I’m a little frazzled by it.
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Another Very interesting post
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Thanks, Kelly.
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