By Eilene Lyon
My mom, like her mother before her, did a lot of sewing early in her marriage. One of the last vestiges of those days is her “button box,” which I’ve inherited. I loved rooting around the button collection as a kid. For some reason, I still have a thing about saving extra buttons, even ordinary white ones.
I once bought a shawl-collared, rag wool sweater that had a plastic button molded to look like a woven leather-covered button. Cheesy. Mom had the real thing in her canister and I quickly appropriated one and swapped it out. Cheap sweater now looked a lot classier!
Just the variety of styles is intriguing. Some have two or four small holes for sewing them on. Others have an opening with a bar across the middle. Or there is an eye attached to the back so the stitching remains hidden and the button stands further away from the garment. Great for bulky wool coats and such. Some are riveted, as on jeans. They come in metal, polyester, ceramic, fabric, shell, horn, pearl, plastic, glass, wood, and more.
While we still have button-down shirts and cardigans, other clothing fasteners have eclipsed buttons on many apparel items. Most pants and jackets use zippers, as do dresses. Except for costume purposes, you’re not likely to come across any button-up shoes. Other fasteners include laces, snaps, hooks, and Velcro. Despite that, buttons are far from obsolete.
But what to do with a collection of buttons, many of them singularities? There will be no small children dropping by my house to be amused by them (and their parents would nix that idea as a choking hazard anyway). That leaves me to invent games or devise art projects.
Probably, I’ll just pour them out and look at them from time to time. Call me nostalgic.

When my daughter was in elementary school they used to do 100 days projects. One year my daughter did 100 buttons. Of course, we bought a bag of mixed buttons at Michaels
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What did she do with the buttons?
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For the project? Hmmm…I’m reaching into the memory bank. I think it was kindergarten and if memory serves she grouped by tens in color. The buttons were used till she stopped crafting and then we donated them to the library
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This is probably going to sound very odd, but I have always hated buttons! I don’t know why—perhaps some bad experience when I was a baby? But I avoid wearing anything with buttons—shirts, sweaters, dresses, coats. Isn’t that strange? So no button collections for me! 🙂
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Button trauma! I have not heard of it before. Do you find it difficult to avoid them? Do you cut off decorative-only buttons?
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I don’t buy anything with decorative buttons! And fortunately my husband and kids know how I feel so I don’t get any as gifts. I will tolerate things like buttons at the top of zippers, but they don’t really show up so I don’t have to look at them.
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That’s quite a feat to avoid buttons. Do your family members wear buttons? They don’t bother you if you aren’t wearing them, say, doing the laundry?
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My family members can wear whatever they want! Though when my daughters were little and I could choose their clothes, I avoided anything with buttons.
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All very interesting. Makes one wonder if something caused this to happen.
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I have wondered all my life. I asked my mother (years ago—she is no longer living) if she had any theories, and she didn’t. Maybe I should go to a hypnotist and see what comes up! It certainly hasn’t been a major issue in my life!
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Sounds like you’ve managed pretty well!
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I love this because, I, too, collect all the extra buttons that come with sweaters, blouses, etc. Plus I have a bunch of them in a jar. I keep thinking one day…
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I suspected I was not alone in this. They’re so pretty and the variety seems endless.
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Far from 🙂 They’ll never go completely out of style, I say.
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So analog – and so useful.
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Yes!
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I can’t throw away buttons either, but I’ve never met anyone who disliked them!
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That was new to me, too. I remember the first time I met someone with a butterfly phobia. That seemed unreal to me. Then I met others with the same phobia.
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Love this Eilene! I too have a button history and remember finding or being given a large container of buttons from grandma, plus a sewing kit at home that housed a smaller supply. I loved counting and sorting and wondering where they all came from. I bet it was common practice that when an article of clothing was so worn out that the only purpose was the rag pile handy and frugal wives snipped off buttons to add to those button jars 🙂
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I’m sure there was a lot of saving of such a useful item. Looking at the different buttons is similar to the way I compared fabric bits in the quilt on my bed (definitely recycled). Buttons were so important. When I visited the Steamboat Arabia museum there were tons of buttons from the 1856 cargo.
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I have my mom’s button box too. A harmless collection – maybe I’ll incorporate them into some art
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I’ve them used in a variety of arts and crafts.
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💕
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My mom had a button jar. We also had a family game we played with buttons on the ends of shoelaces. We had a piece of fabric on the table with a circle in chock, a lid to a pot and a pair of dice Everyone put their buttons in the circle, hanging onto the string. The person with the dice and lid would roll the dice and slam the lid on the table for 7 and 11.
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I know you did your best to explain that, but I’m completely confused!
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It’s a dice game, where the person rolls the dice and slams the lid trying to catch the buttons on strings. The people with the buttons try to pull them out before the lid smashes on a 7 or 11 dice roll. Does that help? It was a ton of fun.
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Ah, I think I get it now.🙂
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It was fun, but violent game at times. We’d get carried away. But a great use for big buttons.
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I imagine a finger or two got slam by a pan lid!
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Yes! Especially as kids playing against my brother.
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Ouch!!
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👍🏼
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I used to love playing with my mum’s button box too! And I now have one of my own though I don’t know why, I rarely need to use it. I keep all the spare* buttons from clothes and I should try to match them up again if I give the garment to a charity shop but I never remember. There are probably mum’s buttons there and possibly some from my mother-in-law too. Similarly, I have a basket with a huge range of sewing threads from those sources, possibly used slightly more often, but not much. Sewing is not my thing!
*When I was very small I didn’t know the word spare and called them the square buttons. Even though they were round.
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I suppose buttons could be used for a game like tiddlywinks. Do you recall that one? I think this button thing is pretty universal!
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I do, we used to play that too. If I was artistic I could make a button collage, but I’m not!
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I’ve thought of the collage option, but I’d need a much larger collection to go that route.
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I think everybody knows someone who collected buttons, I collect buttons. I had an aunt who saved expired AA batteries – I wish I could understand that one.
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No doubt something nefarious…melt them down to build explosives or something! 😉
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Can’t be too careful with some older people.
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Darn tootin’ sonny!!
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I save buttons too!! 🙂 🙂
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I’m starting to wonder if buttons might be the most universal collection in the world.
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You don’t see buttons or button collections anymore. It’s a shame because there is an art to the button.
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Judging by the comments, they’re pretty darn common! I did an industrial search and there are at least 25 button manufacturers and distributors in the U.S. alone.
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I do find them all the time when I go on antique searches. By the mason jars full.
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Unless I come up with some brilliant project for them, I’ll pass on buying them and stick to old photos when I shop in antique stores.
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What a coincidence! I was wondering a few days ago what I should do with my button box that started as my grandmother’s button box.
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Time to play!!
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Yes!
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So relatable this post, as Mum had a large tin full of buttons it has depleted now and I have the remaining buttons. For some reason, I have kept, no idea why, just for sentimental value I think. Yes, like Anabel I played with buttons and loved the game tiddlywinks. I used to wear cardigans as a teenager that had a multitude of buttons artistically arranged on them 🙂
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I’m finding that a lot of people do have button collections, mostly passed down from mothers and grandmothers. How did yours get depleted? Did you find some interesting uses for them?
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I have a feeling Ute, my brother’s partner has nabbed a few as she’s into embroidery. I can’t think of any other reason. Most of the more interesting buttons have gone.
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I’d like to find a button craft project of some sort. Who knows what will come to mind!
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The creative world is your oyster. Cushions?
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Maybe so!
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I have a basket full of various buttons. They seem too random to be called a “collection,” but I add to it whenever another unattached button shows up. I can see that I am in good company.
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You are, indeed! This topic seemed to resonate with a lot of people. Who new we all had a little “buttonphile” inside of us.
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I too have buttons collected over the years, but you sure have a prettier container. Mine are in a clear plastic box. 🙂 When I was very young, I remember stringing buttons on thread to make circles like bracelet size to hang on a Christmas tree. I do need to add that several members of my family at that time worked in factories were buttons were plentiful. 🙂
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It may be that Mom’s button container was a major part of the allure. Your story reminded me of having a metal disk button on string that was a spinning toy. I’d forgotten about that until now. Or maybe it’s a fake memory I just made up.🙂
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My mother saved buttons. Like your mother early on in her marriage she sewed clothes to save money. She never stopped saving buttons, and often would put ones that matched on a safety pin so that she could find them quickly. I gave her collection to Goodwill figuring that someone somewhere would want them for their projects. I don’t sew.
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I rarely see and can’t even recall the last time a button fell off and had to be sewn back on. They used to come unraveled easily, but apparel manufacturers fixed that problem, I guess.
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I have a photo of me as a child playing with the buttons in my mom’s button box. She used to let us kids play down by the river too. She believed her job was to firmly inform us of dangers, but let us choose our outcome.
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I also had a great deal of freedom to roam and to commit as many errors as I could dream of. Wasn’t it a wonderful time to be a child?
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I have my Babcia’s button collection – don’t use it much for practical reasons, but every once in a while, I just pour them out to look at them. They bring back lovely memories of time spent with my grandmother.
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I think button collections are a lot like scrap quilts in their ability to draw out memories like that.
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There are some serious button collectors out there. Some buttons can sell for a substantial amount of money! I love when buttons are included in slow stitch art. They also look great in a jar on the shelf, just like seashells!
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I can hardly imagine a collectible button worth big bucks. The art thing I do get, though.
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You never know, you may just have that one button!! lol
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Let’s see, how many hours should I devote to researching that?😉
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Lol!
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