By Eilene Lyon
If my memory serves me correctly (and I won’t swear it does), this cowry shell lei landed around my neck when our flight landed in Papeete, Tahiti, at 3 a.m. on a December morning in 1998. Let’s just say I’ve had it so long I can’t imagine where else I would have gotten it.
We booked the week-long vacation on the island of Mo’orea through a travel agent. Remember those? That was really five days of vacation, plus two days to get there and back. A friend who’d been there recommended we take a cooler full of non-perishable snacks as food in Tahiti is quite pricey. Good advice.

Our beachfront resort was the only one on the southeast side of the island and the coral reef offered up magnificent tropical sea life to snorkel amongst. We had a snafu with our meal vouchers, but got that straightened out, via fax machine. Remember those? Our grass-roofed hut was comfortable, though the shower floor gave us a peep show of the ground below. Fortunately, it never sent us crashing.
We slept most of the first day away. I had never been on such a long flight and had not dressed for sleep or comfort. It was misery. At least I was not one of the unlucky souls who had boarded the Air France flight in Paris! They spent 24 hours on that plane. Oh my gosh.
There were a number of memorable events during that vacation, but one stands out. We had eaten supper and went for a walk on the dark beach, no moonlight. As we sat listening to the swish of the waves lapping at the sand, The Putterer turned to me and said, “Will you marry me?”

Oh that looks exquisite.
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It was a beautiful place.
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Love it!
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Thanks!
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Lovely memory to share Eilene! I think I got one of those necklaces placed around my neck in Hawaii on one of many vacations!
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We’ve been to Hawaii, too, but much more recently. Funny, but I can’t recall if we got leis there or not.
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I imagine that practice has probably stopped? It’s been many, many years since I’ve been. It was fun to get the flower lei, so the shell necklace was a surprise!
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I expect it has stopped.
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We went there and Bora Bora on our honeymoon. Love.
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The South Pacific islands really are lovely.
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Just perfect
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Oh so sweet! This is a great story. I’ve been to Hawaii a few times, but Tahiti seems much more exotic.
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I think maybe fewer tourists and smaller islands.
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Tropical island vacations are my favorites…so relaxing.
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We love snorkeling, especially.
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Reminds me a little bit of when we stayed in Fiji 🙂 🙂
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No doubt similar. I think Fiji is an atoll – flat and round. Mo’orea is a mountain.
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I checked the photos and Fiji does have some mountains, too. Very pretty!
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Very romantic! I do remember sitting in travel agents queuing behind people who basically went in with no other plan than “we want to go on holiday”. And I remember the library fax being the pride of the office.
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I did that one time. It got to 24 degrees below zero (F) and the condos I managed had pipes bursting everywhere. After I survived that nightmare, I went to a travel agent and said “Send me somewhere warm, cheap, NOW!” I wound up in San Diego, California. It was fun.
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I wasn’t expecting a marriage proposal! How romantic can you get!!
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I wasn’t expecting it either!
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Wasn’t The Putterer a sly boots!
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Pretty sneaky!
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The man has timing, no doubt about that!
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You could say that!
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What a beautiful story, Eilene. And that is a far trip for only a week… You barely get over one jet lag before you start another!
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You’re right about that! When we travel that far now, it is usually for 3 weeks. But we were poor then!
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I understand that (being too poor!) Live and learn (and bigger paycheques)
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Getting older does have some perks.
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It’s only fair, I think!
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Absolutely!
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It was a fun story remembering romantic gestures and how we used to travel. Never been to Tahiti though I do like the look of the hut. Something different.
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At least Tahiti is in the same hemisphere as you. But you live in paradise already.
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Some days it is and certainly not perfect. I am happy to call it home. We have a sunny Easter weekend which is a treat though having a head cold the first in many years is not so much.
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Sorry to hear about the cold. I keep wondering when I will start getting those again.
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Hopefully, not soon, Eilene.
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What an exotic location to propose!
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What a fun story (and headline) with an unexpected twist at the end. It sounds a little primitive seeing the floor, but part of the fun of traveling to faraway places is the excitement of new adventures. This was an adventure in many ways.
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It was most adventurous. I didn’t even touch on the crazy tour guide!
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How romantic! And it was fun to read about the blast-from-the-past resources: travel agents, fax machines, and probably paper plane tickets and boarding passes.
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Oh heck yeah! I still used paper boarding passes until maybe 2016? Slow adapter sometimes.🙃
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😄👍
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What a beautiful memory!
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Thank you!
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What an incredibly romantic way to get engaged! I loved this story.
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Thank you, Amy. I’m definitely not the romantic one between us.🙂
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What a lovely memory and wonderful pics! Quite the place to pop the question 🙂
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He really caught me off guard, I must say.
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Now, that was definitely a trip to remember, and it provided an opportunity to never forget the ‘where’.
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Certainly made it memorable!
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What a wonderful memory with a perfect ending! Tahiti sounds divine.
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Tahiti is a very lovely place, for sure!
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