By Eilene Lyon
This is another artifact from my teen years in Guatemala. The painting on top of the handmade wooden box has chipped away in places, but depicts Volcán de Agua and Lake Atitlán. To give you an idea of the size, it’s just under 5 inches wide. The secret lies in knowing how to open the box.

Let’s see what my teen self decided to stash away in here. This is the first time I’ve opened the box in decades!
The glass vial actually predates our time in Central America. Before that, we lived in Pennsylvania. My friend, JoAnn, had a make-your-own-perfume kit, and this vial held my creation. I never lost the memory of the scent, and learned much later that it closely approximated pikake (the Hawaiian name for Arabian jasmine). I still like it, though I’m not a perfume person.
The ticket stubs all post-date Guatemala. Two are from Corvallis, Oregon (my second high school and Dad’s alma mater). Two are from when we lived at Wright-Patterson AFB in Fairborn, Ohio. That was where I attended my third (and final) high school.
The three concerts are The Doobie Brothers, Steve Miller Band, and Chicago. I went to quite a few others, but apparently these were my faves.
The white ticket was for the Sadie Hawkins Dance my sophomore year. I don’t recall going that year, but I did go my senior year. The guy I asked junior year turned me down flat. I did not date much in Fairborn, and I think that may have been the only official school dance I ever went to. Never Homecoming. Never Prom. A friend and I did get up to some mischief on prom night senior year, but that’s a whole other story.

The small key goes to my first diary, but the cheesy lock on that was twisted open a long, long time ago, so the key is worthless. The two flattened metal objects are a penny and nickel I put on the railroad tracks in Corvallis. FYI: they are hard to find after the train goes by.
The knotted leather was a bracelet I wore until it broke. I can’t recall the origin: when did I put it on? when did it break? No clue. There may be a photo of me wearing it somewhere, but that’s not something I’m willing to dig for!
Let’s see what’s in that miniscule Guatemalan band box. Perhaps that was the BIGGEST secret, and needed an extra layer of shrouding.

Finally, a few folded bits of paper. The largest is the first “love note” I ever received, from my buddy, Andrés. There’s a lot of teen angst in this one and very little love. And he spelled my name wrong! I think Andrés and I “went steady” for about 3 hours before I called it off.
Later, I had a big crush on the bass player in my older brother’s band. Bryan and I were in the same class, actually. We dated (and double-dated with brother Steve, who had a driver’s license) for many months.

I guess you could call this my second love letter. I thought Bryan was a bit serious and I knew we’d be moving back to the states, so I broke it off. I felt so bad about how it ended that I had a very hard time breaking up with anyone for a long time afterward. Maybe that’s why I never seriously dated again until I was a junior in college.

This last item is not from the box, but is a matching piece of handicraft. It’s a little notepad inside a carved and painted wood cover with a similar scene to the secret box. It’s also very small, maybe 2 inches wide. Hardly a size worth trying to write on.

Beautiful memories. I love this way of remembering and capturing them in writing. Thank you for sharing them with me.
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Glad you enjoyed them.🙂
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That was an outstanding look back at who Eilene was as a teen! How fun 🙂 My ex got boxes like that for the kids from somewhere he and his AF crews flew into often. Now I wonder if any of the kids still have theirs??
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I think most kids find some special container to save bits and pieces of their life and interests as they’re growing up. Or maybe I just like to think they do!
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I would guess that you’re correct and things are often stashed in whatever is handy at the time.
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Once upon a time it was cigar boxes. Remember that? I mean, well before my time, of course.😂
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LOL!!!!
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And for us! It’s always fun to look at other people’s memories. Nice pic of you as Sadie!
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We can all be nostalgic together!
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Thanks for sharing your memories and mementoes with us! It’s probably a good thing you broke it off with Andres so fast!
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He was okay as a friend, but we were also too young for that sort of thing.
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So fun to look back and remember. I saw two out of the three bands you shared. I don’t have any saved love notes. This was a wonderful share, Eilene.
I recently, like last week, had old film converted to digital, There was video from when I was a baby up to the mid seventies. Wow the memories that conjures up!
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It’s hard to not think back when we see stuff like this. I do wonder what happened to the home movies my grandfather made. A small chance my cousin has them, I think.
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That’s so lovely! Great to have some tangible evidence of your memories. I don’t think I have much, if anything, from my teenage years.
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That’s probably the period of my life I saved the most, though it really doesn’t amount to much. When you’ve moved as often as I have, there’s little incentive to drag stuff around. Now, I’m not sentimental enough to want to keep such mementos.
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What a wonderful share, Eilene! Oh to have a secret box only to be opened years and years later. What made you do so now? Or did you just find it stashed somewhere… 😉
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I needed material for a blog post!😏 I enjoy these little bits of memoir based on stuff I’ve kept over the years. But yeah, it’s like a time capsule.
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Definitely a time capsule! Fun stuff, for sure.
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I wonder whether I should still hold on to any of it. Really junk, for sure.
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I have a box of ticket stubs. I just can’t bring myself to throw them out!
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My husband does, too. And I think maybe a collection of matchbooks as well. They’ll be around as long as he is!
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I keep thinking I will one day make a collage. I lament that in the past few years, all my “stubs” are virtual and I can’t collect them the same way. Though seriously… outside of me, who gives rat’s ass?
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A collage would be fun, with maybe some poster material and photos of you with people you went with, etc. That could be a nice piece of art.
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Except there are zero photos of who I went with! Many, I couldn’t even tell you!
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You’ll find something that works, I’m sure. Maybe the ticket stubs are colorful?
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Yes, some are. I’m sure I could do something decent 🙂
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Be sure to send me a pic!
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You bet!
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How awesome to have these treasures. Love the photo of your long red hair. Sounds like you had a very rich with memories, normal adolescence.
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Pretty normal, I suppose, for an Army brat.
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Thank you for sharing your treasures from the treasure box!
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Glad you enjoyed them, Liz!
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This was a fabulous and fun post. I went to see Doobie Brothers the same year!
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Thanks, EA. I didn’t remember I’d seen them in Oregon, not Ohio, until I saw the date. Pretty poor at remembering that level of detail, I guess!
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I grew up in Washington, so I saw them in Seattle. It was probably a concert a few days apart from when you saw them.
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How fun!! It’s like a time capsule! 🙂 🙂
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That’s it, precisely!
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Eilene, this post made me smile and reminded me of doodling on anything and everything back then, all related to teenage angst. Nana kept all the letters we sent her, and I have a few of them.
Guatemala worry dolls in little boxes or string-drawn bags were something we sold in the Trade Aid shop I used to work in many years ago; your post reminded me of them.
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I still have a nice little collection of Guatemalan things. My mother, who sewed a lot, bought a ton of fabric, but I gave a bunch of it away. I doubt I’ll find much use even for what I kept. Bryan did some creative little drawings. He became an architect. I used to draw endless mazes on my notebook covers.
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Bryan might have been a longtime “keeper” had your family not returned to the States. He was creative at any rate and a big plus was he spelled your name correctly. Looking back at this unique box was liking opening up a time capsule. I know a lot of schools around here and even our historical museum made a time capsule of items representative of the year 1999 as we were rolling over to 2000. Then they buried them – perhaps they, like so many others, were worried about Y2K and the future. I wonder when they’ll open them up and how many items they will recognize?
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Ehhh. Musicians are a tough lot to love. (Gross generalization there. Ha!) The “one(s) that got away” came later in life when I had a bit more experience of it all. But knowing how to spell my name does count for something.
This mini time capsule was fun to revisit. I’m afraid if I made one now to open when I’m 90 or 100, I wouldn’t have a clue what anything was! I’d have to add a note attached to everything.🤪
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I love this. It’s so evocative of the things we valued and treasured as teenagers. Somewhere I think I still have the “cool” leather band I wore for years on my wrist. I kept concert and theater tickets for years, but they are long gone. I still have the red yo-yo I treasured as a kid (and no, I was never any good at it). We touch these things, and we remember all the joy, all the angst, all the heartbreak and the love we felt at that tender age. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you, Amy. It is interesting to see what mattered to us back then and how we’ve changed over the years. I was so boy crazy! I swear I had a different new crush every month.
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Oh, I was also! It’s embarrassing to read my teen diaries to see how I jumped from one crush to another (and sadly how almost none were reciprocal; I never liked the ones who liked me and vice versa…).
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That was so true! It was so hard to realize that’s just how it is. Finding the ones where the feeling was mutual was tough.
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