Connecting with Cousins

Week 32: #52Ancestors – Reunion

By Eilene Lyon

Because I was an “Army brat” we rarely gathered with family over the years. We had an occasional Thanksgiving or Christmas at Grandma Halse’s place in Corvallis, which included aunts, uncles, and cousins on my dad’s side.

I met more relatives on Dad’s side when Grandma celebrated her 80th birthday and when my aunt and uncle celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.

I’ve only ever been to one official family reunion. I intended to write about it in 2019, but never got around to it. My second cousin, Bonnie, was the primary organizer, but her brother and I helped out a bit, too. None of us live in Moscow, Idaho, where we held the event.

Reunion attendees visiting family graves at the Moscow Cemetery

Aside from Bonnie’s dad and uncle (my mom’s first cousins), I had never met any of the attendees. This was a reunion of descendants of Melville and Sarah Davis (my 2nd great-grandparents). Some of them Bonnie and I had connected with through Ancestry.

We got to visit the Sterling and Clara Davis family farm. It’s no longer in the family, but the owner is an honorary family member and welcomes reunions. We had a history tour of downtown Moscow by someone from the Latah County Historical Society. Bonnie also put together a self-guided driving/walking tour of homes in town that had belonged to Davises at one time.

A house in Moscow, Idaho, once owned by my great-grandmother, Clara Ransom Davis.
A view of the same house that Clara Ransom Davis painted.

One of the great things about meeting with these relatives (in addition to getting to know them) was the opportunity to see the family documents and heirlooms they brought.

A page from the Davis family Bible.
Another page from the bible.
Frank Davis with farm equipment.
A letter signed by my 3rd great-grandfather, Andrew Livengood.
One of Clara Ransom Davis’s botanical studies in watercolor.

A highlight was a visit to Texas Ridge to see the Davis homestead. Also in that part of the county, a local gave us a tour of a one-room school that’s been restored to be a community center, and visited a nearby cemetery where a couple Davis children are buried. We also stopped at the Moscow Cemetery to see many family plots.

Reunion attendees checking out the interior of the old barn on the Davis homestead.
Series of photos of the one-room school restoration work.
The restored school, now community center. My great-grandmother would have visited this school regularly when she was the county superintendent.
Clara and Sterling Davis headstone in the Moscow Cemetery.
Two children of Charles A. Davis buried on Texas Ridge.

After the reunion, Bonnie put together a remembrance book.

Bonnie’s reunion book. I’m front and center, next to my mom’s late cousin, Bruce Wickward.

We had hoped to have another reunion a couple years later, but the  pandemic and life just kept it from happening. Maybe in another year or two, we can get it together again.

 

P.S. I will be taking a break from blogging for the next six weeks. I have a manuscript deadline and then a much-needed vacation.

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  1. My dads side used to do family reunions but those stopped years ago when the core group of dads siblings passed. No one picked up the idea after that so I appreciate that your family continues to try Eilene! Best to you as you work to finish your writing and enjoy a break for vacation 🙂

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    1. I enjoyed the experience quite a bit (though one attendee seemed appalled that I’m a “heathen” – I found it amusing). I hope we do it again. Thanks for the well wishes. I have a heck of a lot of editing to get done this month!

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  2. What a fascinating family reunion. We hold one each year, I may go every five to 10 years or so. We sit around and eat at our Washington riverfront property. Then some of us go swimming. Nothing at all like yours. Good luck on your deadline and enjoy your time off.

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      1. Yours did sound very involved and wonderful that people shared knowledge and family treasures. I remember family reunions at our same spot as a child. My mom and the other women seemed to be in a cooking competition for the best pies and fried chicken.

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  3. Do you have another book in the making? I finished reading Fortune’s Frenzy. It isn’t the typical genre I read, but I thoroughly enjoyed it. You have a smooth cadence to your writing and bringing in the quotes really brought the history to life. The undertakings, financially and travel, were so risky in those days. I can’t believe they did it!!

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    1. Thanks for the kind review of my book! I’m so glad you enjoyed it. The work I’m doing now is a book “for hire” by my publisher. They have a series of books going about pioneer cemeteries in the West. I’m doing the Colorado book. Researching and writing a complete book in 13 months is harder than I imagined!

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  4. Wonderful to see your family reunion and the folks who took the time to attend and connect, Eilene. Great that they brought documents and you visited relevant venues. I gathered with siblings and cousins from my father’s side for a big reunion (89 of us!) recently, and it is heartwarming to embrace and revive family connections.

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  5. How fun for you to get together with your kinfolk. I like that you did some things, instead of sitting across a table from each other and twiddling your thumbs. Enjoy your time off from blogging, will miss you.

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