The Brimmer Conundrum

By Eilene Lyon

For this story, I have to begin at the ending. The whole shebang is much more complicated—but this is bad enough!

Who Are Louisa’s Parents?

My 2nd great-grandmother, Louisa Mary Dills, died on February 29, 1928 in Sioux City, Woodbury County, Iowa. Her death certificate gives her name as Mary Louisa Dills, her birth as January 17, 1850 in Germany, widowed, father as John Brimmer, no mother’s name. The informant was her youngest child, Hulda (Dills) Beedle.1

Louisa Mary Dills headstone in Fairfield Cemetery, Woodbury County. (Find a Grave, JMeister)

Louisa’s husband was Adolph Dills. They had fourteen children together (two died as newborns). The other documents with a maiden name for Louisa are her children’s marriage and death records. This gets a bit crazy: Brimmer, Bremer, Brennen, Brinner, Bummer (!). There are three records with Brimmer and two with Bremer.

The 1900 census indicates Louisa and Adolph married in 1870, but I have no supporting documentation. It also states she arrived in America in 1855.2

Going back a bit further, to the 1885 Iowa census, the Dills family lived in Wolf Creek Township, Woodbury County, in far western Iowa. The estimated birth year for Louisa is 1850. Her first five children were born in Jackson County, the next two in neighboring Jones County, and then two born in Cedar County (south of Jones County, southwest of Jackson County—all in far eastern Iowa).3

Who were Louisa’s parents and siblings? John Brimmer could be her father, per her death certificate. From her children’s birth places, it seems probable that she lived in Jackson County, Iowa, when she married Adolph around 1870.

John Brimmers in Jackson County, Iowa

There is a John H. Brimmer buried in the St. Nicholas Catholic Cemetery in Bellevue, Jackson County. The inscription says he died on May 3, 1876 at age 64 years, 5 months, and 18 days. That calculates to a birth date of December 15, 1811.4 Is this Louisa’s father?

Close-up of John H. Brimmer’s headstone inscription. (Ancestry, rraustin86)

There are two possibilities for this man in the 1870 census: John Breman and John Brimer. Neither one appears to have used a middle initial in any written records found to date.

Table 1. Comparison of the two possible John Brimmers of Jackson County, Iowa, in the 1870 U.S. census. John Breman lived in Maquoketa Township and owned no real property. 5 John Brimer lived in Bellevue Township and had $4,000 in real property.6 Birthplaces are transcribed as written on the census forms. Estimated birth year for Louisa Breman is 1848. *These two males may not be children of John and Magdalena given that they are listed after the younger ones. **Caroline is listed as an “orphan-ward.”

John Brimer (also spelled Bremer, Brimer, Bruemmer, Brinnur, Brenner, Bremmer, and Brahmer) is enumerated in the 1860 U.S. census and the 1856 and 1852 Iowa census, always in Bellevue. His residency in Iowa dates to 1844. All his children were born in Iowa.7

A John Brammer in Maquoketa Township wrote his will on October 7, 1872. He states he is sixty-five (b. ~1807). He gives his wife’s name as Mary (not Dora). Then he names his children as follows:

My oldest daughter Sophia…

My 2nd daughter Mary…

My oldest son John…

My 2nd son Peter…

My 3rd son Henry…

My daughter Louisa…

Why doesn’t he call Louisa the “3rd daughter”? If she is the Louisa Breman in the 1870 census, then she is older than Henry by a decade and should be listed above him. Unfortunately, John Brammer did not give surnames for the daughters, who were probably all married. Why not? Likely because of the bequests. All six offspring received exactly the same thing: one dollar.8

The beginning of John Brammer’s will that states he is from Maquoketa Township, age 65, and his wife is Mary. (Jackson County Will Book C, p. 46)

If this is the same man as John Breman (and I believe he must be), he had no assets (real or personal) per the 1870 census. There is no mention of real property in the will, nor is there a probate case. His wife, Mary, inherited whatever miniscule personal property he had. Why he bothered to write a will is a mystery.

Recall that the John H. Brimmer headstone gives a death date of May 3, 1876. John Brammer’s will was recorded May 4, 1874, almost exactly two years earlier. Could the year on the stone be incorrect? I’ve seen many wrong inscriptions, so it is possible.

The problem is that this cemetery is in Bellevue where John Brimmer, husband of Magdalena, lived. John Brammer/Breman lived in Maquoketa, quite a distance from Bellevue. Wouldn’t he have been buried closer to home? Besides, Louisa’s father seems to have been too poor to have a headstone like this one.

Map of Jackson County, Iowa. The eastern edge is the Mississippi River. Note the distance between Bellevue Township (3) and Maquoketa Township (16).
The DNA Evidence

The rest of this case relies on DNA evidence. I have plenty of matches descending from Louisa. But in order to find her family, I need matches descended from her siblings. Fortunately, I do have some. There are eight matches descending from her brother, Peter J. Brimmer. There is one match descended from her brother, Henry J. Brimmer.

Henry J. Brimmer was born in January 1858, which matches Henry Breman from the 1870 census.9 But he gave his birth place as Milwaukee, not Iowa. This actually makes sense, because I have not been able to locate the Brimmer family anywhere prior to 1870, when they lived in Maquoketa, Iowa. Milwaukee was a big draw for German immigrants. On his marriage return, Henry gave his name as Heinrich Bruemmer, and his parents as Johann Bruemmer and Maria C. Panz.10

Peter J. Brimmer stated in census records that he immigrated in 1853 or 1854. He also has his mother, Mary Brimmer, living with him in the 1880 census (consistent with the Mary Brammer named in John’s will and Maria [Panz] Bruemmer on Henry’s marriage record).11 I’ve not found a death record for Mary, yet. I also found Peter’s photograph on Ancestry. I think he looks a lot like Louisa. Don’t you?

Siblings Louisa Mary (Brimmer) Dills ( courtesy of D. Abell) and Peter J. Brimmer (Ancestry, R. L. Schultz)

Given that both Peter and Louisa consistently state they were born in Germany, and that they came to America in the 1850s, it follows that their older siblings (from the will)—Sophia, John Jr, and Mary—were also born in Germany. I have been unable to track any of them. They might not have immigrated with the rest of the family. Clearly, Louisa, Henry J., and Peter J. Brimmer were not the children of the John Brimmer who lived in Bellevue, though they might have wished they were!

Feature image: Louisa Mary (Brimmer) Dills, date unknown, cropped. (D. Abell)


  1. State of Iowa, “Standard Certificate of Death,” for Mary Louisa Dills, 29 February 1928; image Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/61442/images/101784612_02455 : accessed 15 March 2024). 
  2. 1900 U.S. census, Foxton Township, Clark County, South Dakota, population schedule, sheet 11-B, dwelling/family 199, Adolph Dills; image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/7602/images/4120598_00140 : accessed 15 March 2024); citing National Archives microfilm publication T623, roll 1548, p. 11, enumeration district 0090. 
  3. 1885 Iowa census, Wolf Creek Township, Woodbury County, page 563, dwell. 31, A. Dills; image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/1084/images/IA1885_280-0457 : accessed 15 March 2024); citing State Historical Society of Iowa (via Heritage Quest); Microfilm of Iowa State Censuses, 1856, 1885, 1895, 1905, 1915, 1925 As Well Various Special Censuses From 1836-1897. 
  4. Ancestry, Find a Grave, database with images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/6857485/bri : accessed 15 March 2024), memorial 6857485, John H. Brimmer Sr. (1811–1874 [sic]), Saint Nicholas Cemetery, Bellevue, Jackson County, Iowa; gravestone photograph by Thomas Henning. Note: the death date on the memorial does not match the inscription on the headstone. 
  5. 1870 U.S. census, Bellevue Township, Jackson County, Iowa, p. 3, dwell./fam. 12, John Brimer; image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/7163/images/4263628_00009 : accessed 15 March 2024); citing National Archives microfilm publication M593, roll 397, p. 349B. 
  6. 1870 U.S. census, Maquoketa Township, Jackson County, Iowa, p. 14, dwell. 92, fam. 94, John Breman; image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/7163/images/4263628_00250 : accessed 15 March 2024); citing National Archives microfilm publication M593, roll 397, p. 7B. 
  7. 1856 Iowa census, Bellevue Township, Jackson County, p. 390, dwell. 70, John Brimer; digital image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/1084/images/IA_71-0202 : accessed 15 March 2024). This document states that Brimer has lived in Iowa for 12 years (since 1844). He and Magdalena were born in Germany, and their children—Mary, John, Margaret, and Peter—were born in Iowa. 
  8. Jackson County, Iowa, “Will Book C,” pp. 46-47, will of John Brammer, 7 October 1872, recorded 4 May 1874; image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/9064/images/004311207_00227 : accessed 15 March 2024). Because this image is a copy of the original, the last name could possibly have been misspelled. 
  9. Ancestry, Find a Grave, database with images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/146047331/henry-j.-brimmer : accessed 15 March 2024), memorial 146047331, Henry J. Brimmer (1858–1939), Arlington Park Cemetery, Greenfield, Milwaukee County, Wisconsin, gravestone photographs by Diane’s Spare Time. 
  10. Milwaukee County, Wisc., “Record of Marriages,” vol 26, p. 161, registration for Heinrich Bruemmer and Elise Guenther, 29 April 1883, recorded 7 May 1883; image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/61720/images/48919_00013-00356 : accessed 15 March 2024). 
  11. 1880 U.S. census, Lyons City, Clinton County, Iowa, p. 32, dwell./fam. 10, Peter Brimmer; image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/6742/images/4240679-00202 : accessed 15 March 2024); citing National Archives microfilm publication T9, roll 334, p. 99d, enumeration dist. 287. 

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  1. Interesting and confusing! I am not sure what to think. But I don’t see any resemblance between Louisa and Peter or at least nothing strong enough to see them as siblings based on that alone. But the other factors do seem to suggest they could be siblings. Any idea where in Germany they lived? Could there be German records for that family?

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    1. The DNA indicates they are siblings, whether they resemble one another or not. No idea as to a specific place in Germany. Both Mecklenburg and Württemberg show up in a couple places. But those are pretty big regions and far apart. I have not yet found any immigration records or any birth/marriage records in Germany. Still a good bit of work to do! Where were they in 1860, for example. I think probably in Milwaukee. But no evidence, yet.

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      1. I am so used to DNA not being helpful (endogamy, pedigree collapse, etc.) that I am always pleased and surprised that it really does work for most people. Good luck with your continued search!

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      2. I have definitely solved a number of brick walls with DNA (not to mention radically transforming my entire tree). I had not really looked closely enough at the evidence for this family until the past week. I knew about some of the matches, but not the best way to interpret. One of the keys was coming to the realization that Henry really was a son of John and Mary and not a grandson. The DNA provided strong evidence he was their son, despite the gap between Henry and Louisa. A surprise baby, most likely.

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  2. I was trying to find out info on an aunt/cousin/friend/obscure-married-into-family relative recently. She was given so many different titles by my relatives when I was young and every time I believed that I had pieced together who she was and where she belonged something came up to cause doubt. I think with this last go-round I have it nailed but of course that led to other inconsistencies with more relatives. I love the puzzles with genealogy but they cause frustration and angst to massive levels! Ten different name spellings, other people digging around and linking things were they don’t belong, inaccurate or unknown family memories…you know all the pitfalls Eilene and still you pursue the answers. After a while I simply call the search good enough and move on for my sanity 🙂

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    1. I do understand that angst, Deb. I find that I have to ignore other people’s research, which can so often lead one astray. I’m currently taking the Advanced Skills in Genealogy course (18-month course) and it has given me some methodology that I find helpful. But I realized, also, that as I write out this research, it helps me think through what it means, and that gives me new insights and avenues to explore.

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      1. I think you made the correct call Eilene, arming yourself with the knowledge to know how to go about all the research. I, like so many others (a bazillion family and ??? in my personal situation) may just randomly find a name and assume. That path really doesn’t help in the big picture does it 😉

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      2. I find it can add tedium to the process (e.g. creating source citations as I go), but slowing down that way helps to increase my understanding of a source and analyze the information better.

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  3. You are meticulous with your research, as per. And I don’t know, if I didn’t have a pot to pee in, I would at the very least make certain I had enough set aside to bequeath my kids a dinner at their favorite restaurant.

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    1. At first blush, it did seem cold to me to leave them only a dollar. But I think maybe this man really did have nothing and wanted to preserve a record that these people were his children and he acknowledged them. It’s a little sad.

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      1. I had trouble tracing my great grandmother’s parents. After thinking it would be easy (don’t ever do that!) because of her unusual surname—Bobinger—it turned out there were tons of Bobingers in mid-19th century Cincinnati. Thanks to the work over many years of Hamilton County genealogists, I did eventually figure out who they were. It turned out she was orphaned as a young child. Her father died of cholera and her mother died in childbirth shortly after, so they never made the census. She was raised by her maternal grandmother. It was a fun hunt!

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      2. So many circumstances could tear a family apart, including untimely deaths. Glad to hear you pursued the case to its resolution. It’s a rewarding feeling to add that next generation.

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  4. I was thinking the same as Anabel. What stands out for me is how many new immigrants seem ashamed of their heritage when trying to assimilate into a new society. I know the obvious reasons, though the sad part is that it still happens and here in NZ. Even with our Maori language.

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  5. Good thing you are persistent in delving into your ancestor’s records Eilene. It takes patience and I would have seen this line: “John Brimer (also spelled Bremer, Brimer, Bruemmer, Brinnur, Brenner, Bremmer, and Brahmer)” and how the names of the children were rattld off and likely would have stopped right there.

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  6. That’s quite a family history mystery you have going there…I tend to agree, though – if Louisa’s father had basically no money, it’s unlikely his family would have spent money on a fancy headstone.

    At least you have some DNA evidence to go on. Henry being a surprise baby makes sense – it wasn’t at all unusual. My husband and his aunt were born 5 months apart. Interesting how he at least gave a maiden name for his mother – assuming he was correct, that’s at least something to work with. Hopefully some more records will come to light to help you narrow down specific places of birth and perhaps even some passenger list records.

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    1. I think Henry’s marriage record is the best lead on Louisa’s parents at this point. I do hope to find more records, perhaps the immigration. I do feel closer to solving this brick wall than I was before! The DNA really did make a difference. Ancestry’s Thru-Lines has not helped, though. For a while, it said Peter’s descendants were the descendants of John Brimmer Jr. But a look at the trees and they all said “Peter”! And though Henry’s descendant shows up as a match (and is clearly Louisa’s brother), that match doesn’t connect to her family in Thru-Lines. But it keeps changing, so I expect they’ll sort it out at some point.

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    1. I tend to analyze the shapes of various features. They have very similar brows, eye shape and placement, cheeks and chin. But I get that I am looking for similarities that may or may not exist. But they are siblings according to DNA.

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      1. Through ancestry.com. I discovered my grandfather’s missing siblings, and that family had photographs. They look so different from my grandfather, that I still question the whole connection.

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      2. I’m still hoping to meet my newly found relatives on this family line. I have a half-first cousin. We’ve communicated, but our plan to meet in 2020 fell through. Maybe this year!

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    1. There is certainly a lot of time involved. I’m learning to slow down and look at documents more closely, which helps me understand them better and come up with more logical conclusions. Like about realizing John Brimmer was too poor to likely have a headstone like that.

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