By Eilene Lyon
Today I celebrate another trip around the sun. I thought it might be a good time to reflect on my arrival on this Earthly Plane, oh-so-long ago. First a little background.
My father was in ROTC (Reserve Officer Training Corps) in college. He married my mother after their junior year, and upon graduation joined the Army. My brother, Steve, was born at Dad’s first station in Fort Lewis, Washington.
In January 1961, Dad attended language school to learn French in preparation for a posting in France later in the year. Mom and Steve enjoyed their time living in Monterey, California, so much so that Mom was soon pregnant with me!

That July, Dad went for additional training at Ft. Lee, Virginia. Mom and Steve headed to Little Rock, Arkansas, where her parents lived. Though the Smiths were from the Pacific Northwest, Grandpa had a good job in Arkansas with the Army Corps of Engineers.
In early October, Dad began his journey to France. His first stop was New York City where he visited Mom’s sister and brother-in-law. Dad wrote to Mom and Steve upon arriving in the Big Apple:
It rained or was cloudy all the way to New York and was raining in New York. Some of the buildings were so high that the tops of them were actually above the clouds. I saw the empire state building from the plane.
I had a most interesting meal on the plane. For the first time in my life I ate something that I couldn’t identify. And only I and one other fellow in the front seat had the meal. Everyone else had steak, which was apparently the “first-class” meal. But anyway what I had I think was chicken or turkey white meat rolled onto a stick, breaded and deep fat fryed. When I hit the center melted butter gushed out and there was something green chopped like. Along with this delicious thing was what I think might have been rice. But the kernels, or whatever, were long and brown. Anyway I tried a forkfull, and they were delicious. The rest of the meal was also very good; a fruit salad, veg. salad, roll, milk, and cake-type dessert with whipped cream.
Five days later, Dad wrote from France:
After an 18 ½ hour flight I landed at Orley Field, Paris at 1030 hours local time—0330 Little Rock time. We had a nice flight all the way on a military type DC-7 aircraft.
We made two intermediate stops. One at Harman Air Base near Corner Brook, New Foundland, the other at Prestwick Air Base, Glasgow, Scotland. After leaving Harmon, we were over the Atlantic for nearly eight continuous hours and I never saw it once. At first we were above a thick white cloud bank then the darkness was on us the remainder of the trip.
Though he was supposed to be picked up by someone at the airport, that didn’t happen. Instead he had to take a bus to Orleans and on arrival he was quite dispirited, clearly missing the family. He would not be there for my birth.

My Grandma Smith typed up a letter to Dad on Sunday, December 31, 1961:
You now have a beautiful roly-poly daughter and both baby and mother are doing fine. Sylvia said she had her first pain about 1:30 a.m. and along about 4:00 they began to come quite often, though not with any regularity. About 5:30 we decided it was time to contact the doctor and lo and behold he was already at the hospital. He said to bring her on over and we got there about 6:00. She was having pretty hard labor by that time and so things progressed quite rapidly. I saw Eilene Marie about 9:00 a.m. and she let out a lusty cry. She weighs 8 lb., 10 oz. and has a round chubby face. Dr. Gillespie said everything went along fine with both of them…
I called your Mother when I got home and she said she felt that it was going to be a girl. She was happy that it was born on her wedding anniversary and also in 1961. She said, “One thing finally went right for the Halse family in 1961.”
I should explain that my Grandma Halse lost her husband, her mother, and her father-in-law in 1961. That’s a rough year!! Though I didn’t plan it, I’m glad I could give her a little cheer at the tail end.


Feature image: Mom (pregnant with me) with Steve and her parents, Clare and Laurence Smith, in Little Rock.
Happy Birthday, Eilene!!
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Thank you, Heather!
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Happy Birthday! I love this story- who did the portrait of you? As a young child did you always wonder why people got so excited and celebrated so much on your birthday. 1961 holds a lot of history for your family and I bet you are one of the best of those memories Eilene 🙂
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Thank you, Deb! There is the name of a photographer on the back of the day-one portrait. It almost looks like a drawing, but isn’t. My dad called a little while ago to tell me that he was sad he wasn’t there when I was born (he had not seen this post). He told me the reason Mom and Steve did not go to France with him was because of fears for family when the Berlin Wall and German partition was going on.
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What precious family memories, Eilene. Happy birthday! Something somewhat parallel occurred in my husband’s family in 1962. There were three tragic deaths in the family that year, followed on Dec 30 by the birth of his niece, whose b’day, obviously, was yesterday. Two fine women bringing much joy!
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Thank you, Jane! Wow, that is quite the parallel story, too.
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It’s great to have old photos, letters and shared memories that can be pieced together to tell our stories. I enjoyed reading this! Happy Birthday!
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Funny, but if Dad had been there, I wouldn’t have these wonderful letters to tell this story.
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The irony. My Dad was gone a lot too and Mom saved all his letters.
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Yes, Thank goodness for family who save letters!!
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Happy Birthday, Eilene! I love the photos. In your one-day-old photo, you look like you’d just said
Harumph!”
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Ha! Very likely my exact expression. Thanks, Liz.
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You’re welcome, Eilene.
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Happy birthday, Eilene! Lovely story.
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Thank you, Anabel. Dad says Mom and Steve had to stay in the US because of the Berlin Wall going up. Otherwise, I would have been born in France.
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Happy Birthday to the “beautiful roly-poly daughter,” the baby who redeemed such a daunting year. Babies, especially grandchildren, do that often, don’t they!
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Thank you, Joy. I do think that happens a lot. Grandkids brighten many a dismal year from some folks.
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Wow, you were a well-travelled baby!
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Yes, indeed. I could have been born in France but for the situation in Germany at the time. The military wasn’t sending families over. My younger brother was born there, though.
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Happy, happy birthday!!! Love the story and the pics 🙂 Enjoy your special day 🎉🎉
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Thank you, Teresa!!
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Happy Birthday and Happy New Year. May 2025 be a good one on both counts.
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Thank you, Judy!
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Happy Everything! I enjoyed the part of the letter where your dad talks about the mysterious food!
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That line about eating something he couldn’t identify totally cracked me up! I’m glad you found the humor in it, too. Thank you, Margy.
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Happy New Year! Happy Birthday!!!
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Thank you!
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Happy Birthday and Best Wishes for 2025!
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Thank you, Nikki!
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Well, due to the time difference, you have a few more hours to celebrate your birthday. Here we are dwindling down to the last hour of 2024. I like that this post takes us back to life before you were born and then the precious drawing of you plus those of you and your mom and Grandma Smith. I’m sorry your father missed your birth Eilene Marie. How nice to have the letter recounting his impressions, especially the meal. Happy Birthday to you and best in 2025!
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Thank you, Linda. Having those family letters is so precious to me, as you can imagine. The photos, too. Happy New Year!
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Yes, you are lucky to have such heartfelt writings and all those photos to cherish forever and now on your blog for all to see. Best to you in 2025 too Eilene!
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My dad enjoyed seeing this, too, especially since he doesn’t have these photos.
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That’s great Eilene!
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The photo of you with your grandma is absolutely precious. Happy Birthday, my friend!
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Happy New Year, Brandi!
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Wow–I love this, and Happy Birthday! I hope your dad enjoyed the food in France even more than the food on the plane. I’m still trying to figure out what that dinner might have been. Some kind of shish kabob with wild rice, maybe? Also, your one-day portrait is adorable! Hope your birthday brought you all kinds of fond memories and hopes for the future.
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Thanks, Rebecca, and Happy New Year! The breading and butter and green stuff turn it into something else altogether. I expect he mostly ate my mother’s cooking once she got there. C’est la vie!
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Somehow, I missed this post when it first landed in my inbox. So… belated birthday greetings! I love that first picture of you. It looks like you got a whiff of something rather smelly. 🙂
It sounds like your paternal grandmother had a horrible year, but your birth helped her find some joy.
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Thanks, Janis! I imagine hospitals don’t have the most pleasant aromas.😉
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A bit belated though sincerely wishing you a happy birthday. Weren’t you a cute chubby cheeked baby 😉
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Thank you, Suzanne! I think I was a cute baby.😁
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You were 🙂
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That’s what a baby should look like and oh baby, look at how far you’ve come!
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These trips just seem to go faster and faster!
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Happy belated! Loved the story. The circle of life.
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Yep. Round and round and round we go!
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