By Eilene Lyon
I like to tell myself that my life experiences and trips around the sun have taught me well how to avoid being scammed. But we are all vulnerable in certain circumstances. I’m no exception.
In this case, a few days before Christmas I stopped in at the Durango Visitor Center where they used to sell tickets for local music events. They no longer do. I need to purchase online. I’ve done it before and had no trouble. This time I wasn’t so lucky.

I searched for tickets for the San Juan Symphony at the Durango Community Concert Hall at Fort Lewis College. Unfortunately, I failed to notice the “sponsored” links at the top of the Google results (normally I scroll right by these).
A couple clues during the purchasing process to get two tickets for the San Juan Symphony’s “The Life and Music of Claude Debussy” at the concert hall gave me pause. First, was the fact that the map of the concert hall was just a blank, instead of the usual “select your seats” page. Second was that the PayPal link didn’t work. But I blundered ahead with the purchase anyway, charging the tickets to my credit card.

There was a comment box on the purchase page where I remarked that the fees being charged were outrageous; my third overlooked clue that this wasn’t the place I should be buying my tickets. I did not think that $59 per ticket was out of line for a symphony—and it isn’t. I now have legitimate tickets for the symphony that cost exactly that amount.
This site, however, added a $12 fee per ticket for no apparent reason, then another $15 “delivery fee” on top of that, for a grand total of $156.95. I would have been okay with the overcharge, IF in fact I had purchased tickets to a symphony.

Here’s the rub: The vendor did NOT deliver any tickets, despite the $15 delivery fee. Instead they sent me an email telling me to pick up the tickets at “will call” on the day of the concert.
Yesterday morning, I read my friend Judith’s article in the Durango Herald about the upcoming “Life and Music of Claude Debussy” performances. NOT the San Juan Symphony. NOT at the Durango Community Concert Hall. Rather, it is a chamber music lecture/recital at a local church. Tickets cost $25.
There are no tickets at “will call” at the concert hall, because there is no performance there at all.
Judith, outraged on my behalf, contacted the concert hall and we were told that this is a national problem and a growing concern here in li’l ol’ Durango. Current state and federal laws are ineffective to combat this.
Credit card companies often do not resolve in the cardholder’s favor, because these scam sites actually deliver usable tickets some of the time (at highly inflated prices). That is not true in my case, so I’m hopeful I will obtain the full refund when all is said and done.
Before filing a dispute, I did my due diligence and contacted the ticket seller for a refund. A real person actually got on the line, but instead of responding to my request, she kept repeating some scripted remarks that had nothing to do with what I was asking. I finally hung up in disgust.
I don’t buy many concert tickets, but feel I’m not likely to fall for this again. Unfortunately, ever-slicker scams will pop up and I will have to be forever vigilant. Please do likewise.
Bummer
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Just have to go through the credit card hassle, I think.
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I’m sorry you experienced this. It’s becoming a greater problem every day
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I should have paid better attention to my “Spidey senses”!
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It shows how easy it is to be scammed, and that no matter how diligent we are, we are still at risk. So very frustrating!
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I won’t quit the internet, as life would get too difficult, but I quit social media (aside from blogging). There’s so much crap like this going on. It’s one thing when you can just not answer the phone and quite another in these times.
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Yes, the complexity has certainly changed. I think more and more people are realizing social media isn’t the be all and end all. There is really a dark side to it all.
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Given how easily misinformation spreads and bad actors can harm you, we really do need to be wary. And spend less time in the virtual world, more in the real one.
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Even when we try to be ultra careful… really sorry that turned into a huge fiasco Eilene.
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It was just supposed to be a fun stocking-stuffer, a night out…
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That almost makes it worse doesn’t it? So many people are just not nice. You have to wonder what happened in their lives that they reached that point to stoop so low…
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I think our instant-gratification culture has short-circuited moral and ethical development.
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I feel your pain. We have fallen for “fake” ads on Facebook two times—once for toilet paper during the height of the pandemic (we got unusable tiny rolls of coarse toilet paper instead of the advertised Charmin) and once for jigsaw puzzles (I got a cheapo keyring instead of puzzles). NEVER click on any Facebook ads!
I hope you get your money back, and I hope you got to go to the actual concert.
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I’m very good about not clicking on ads (at least not on purpose). WP ads are getting worse—the video ones pop up even if I don’t touch them!
This concert (chamber recital/lecture) was not what we wanted. We’ll see an actual symphony performance next month instead.
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I haven’t been scammed, but you might have read my November gallivanting post in which I confessed to buying tickets in completely the wrong city! I had clicked on the line above or below Glasgow but, like you, I was so sure I was in the right place that I overlooked warning signs (such as wondering why the floor plan looked different from normal). So easily done. Hope you get your money back!
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I do recall reading about that, Anabel, and that you made the most of it. I expect I’ll prevail in the dispute since the seller didn’t have the tickets to a non-existent event.
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Yikes. This is a good reminder to us all that we can’t be too careful when online.
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We really do have to be careful—all the time.
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Thank you for the reminder. As you said, we can’t stop doing business on the internet because that’s where we live these days, but it is scary as all heck what happens with the wrong click of a button.
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This was far from the worst that could happen, but sobering.
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I’m so sorry this happened to you. Honest people, even web-savvy ones, still sometimes get taken in because we trust what we see and especially with an event like a classical music concert, can’t even imagine someone would be scamming over something like that. Taylor Swift? Yep, but not an evening featuring the music of Debussy. Sad comment on the current times that we have to be suspicious of every single thing we see online.
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Thank you for the cautionary tale, Eileen! I’m so sorry the scum-of-the-earth scammers got you
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Everyone’s gotta make a buck, and it’s a shame some chose to do it so dishonestly.
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Disgusting.
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With you on that.
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Unfortunately, by nature scammers are always one step ahead. It is one reason people are losing trust in just about everything.
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That lack of trust in so many institutions and individuals is eroding our society in dangerous ways.
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Thanks for sharing. I can see how this could easily happen to anyone.
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It really can. So many different scams going on out there!
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Scammers are getting better and better at fooling us. It used to be fairly easy to spot scams – misspellings, grammatical errors, bad graphics, etc. – but they have become true professionals. I’m sorry this happened to you, and I hope you get your money back. And thank you for sharing your story so the rest of us so we can better avoid it ourselves.
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Thanks, Janis. As I mentioned, I typically steer clear of sponsored links at the top of the search results, but for some reason I didn’t catch that this time. It makes even more leery of those now.
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My husband had both of his credit cards used by someone in Quebec (we live in Alberta). He did not lose his cards, so somehow someone stole the information. Fortunately both of the card companies quickly informed him, cancelled the cards, and refunded him for the fraud charges.
Fraud is an ever increasing problem, even if all you do is walk around with a credit card in your wallet!
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Yes, I’ve had my card information stolen a couple times. The credit card companies seem pretty quick to catch on to that.
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I’m sorry this happened to you Eilene … scammers duplicate real websites so easily now, so it is easy to become prey to these people. Our Detroit Auto Show started today, along with a litany of cautions by police to the general public about parking scams and how scammers are using private lots (on weekends) and selling parking spaces. While people are at the Auto Show, their cars are towed and the parking lot vendor is nowhere to be found. Who are these scammers for goodness sake?
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Everyone seems to be coming up with an unscrupulous angle to make a buck. People have become completely detached from society and consequences of their actions. It’s an insidious disease of the soul.
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Yes, there are so many types of scamming going on right now that it boggles the mind.
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They all need to be exposed. Some people are embarrassed to admit when they fall for something and that just protects the scammers.
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Yes, that happens all the time. I am amazed when they mention the latest scam on the radio and they say that someone fell for it and tragically lost a lot of money. You have to figure that others are not as forthright about being scammed, so they never tell the authorities.
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We have to take the shame out of it for the victims. I don’t know how we do that.
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Yes, punishment is too lenient to begin with. Sadly, I think sometimes people have no shame anymore.
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Eilene – I sent you a story I saw on MSN this morning that you may be interested in (in the spare time you likely do not have).
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It’s so easy to fall prey to a scam, Eilene. We hear about things like this at the bank all the time. Often times it’s smart, savvy, educated individuals like yourself who let their guard down for a minute or who didn’t know what to expect in the first place. Losses can run into the hundreds of thousands of dollars at a time.
Just as we figure out how to spot or fight one scam, another one pops up. It’s discouraging and frustrating.
Since your scammer delivered nothing and offered no resolution, I bet your credit card will refund the transaction. Hopefully the dispute process won’t take too long and you can put this behind you. Meanwhile, you did learn a valuable lesson which you are sharing with others. Thank you for that.
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My aunt lost something close to $400k to a phone scammer. She didn’t even have email, much less internet access. This happened during COVID. It killed her, is my belief. Her entire savings – poof!
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Sigh. I’m so sorry to hear that. It happens more often than you might think.
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It’s criminal AND tragic. How those people sleep at night…?
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I cannot imagine.
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Jesus that sucks Eilene, I’m sorry to read this. And you’re right, the scams get ever more elaborate, it makes me pine for the good old days when ticket scalpers would try and screw you right outside the stadium, face to face (at least). With no “delivery” or “handling” or “processing” fees attached, the way even the legit sites do to us.
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Fortunately, I was able to get legitimate tickets to the actual symphony that is next month, not next week. There are NO fees on the concert venue website. But yeah, something about people scamming you to your face is somehow better than this nameless, faceless type of rip-off.
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At least we had a chance to give them the stink-eye.
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These things should always be called out.
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This used to be a simple process, now you’re always dealing with a third party . Thanks for the heads up, Eilene!
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I’ll never go anywhere but the source for Durango tickets in the future. I don’t even attempt big concerts in Denver or other places.
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Nasty people and I’m pleased you sorted it. We had our credit cards used skimmed (?) when buying coffee at a Middle Eastern airport. Six months later, $10,000 worth of exercise equipment thanks very much. Luckily, we always notified our bank what countries we were heading to and they noticed the transaction before the money went out of our account. We didn’t want a replacement sent to us overseas so we had to wait months until we got back to NZ. Then we decided we needed two cards for us both in case it happened again, and it did while we were travelling.
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I’ve had my card data swiped a few times, too. At least that is not what happened in this case. It is good to have two or three cards even if you use one most of the time. Occasionally one gets declined for mysterious reasons, too. I find it happens for small charges like parking meters. Has to be extra frustrating to deal with when far from home, Suzanne.
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Well, that happened when we were travelling fulltime housesitting. I’ve realised I haven’t been overseas since the end of 2018. One day it will happen again.
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The swiping has happened locally and sometimes is just a mystery.
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