The Death of Christmas Cards?

By Eilene Lyon

Did you receive a big haul of cards this holiday season? Yeah, me neither. Of the seven cards gracing our windowsill, only two are from family. The remainder came from organizations we’ve donated to, or companies we’ve done business with.

How many cards did I send, you ask? Well, just five, it turns out. There were some years when we made and received photo-greeting cards (which are nice).

Check out this crazy family photo card from 1937. (Florida Memory via Wikimedia Commons)

I tried electronic cards one year. And whatever happened to the once-ubiquitous holiday brag letters? The bottom line is that each year we send and receive fewer cards. Is this a general trend?

Part of it is that we have fewer family to exchange cards with (we are getting older, after all). And with friends, it seems that we just avoid getting into the card “trap.” Send a card this year, they don’t. Next year they do, we don’t. Yikes!

In a completely unscientific survey, it appeared to me that this year there were abundant boxed cards on display in every store—cheap! And they collected more dust than buyers. Are holiday cards going the way of the dinosaur?

(State Library of Queensland via Wikimedia Commons)

The U.S. Chamber of Commerce stated back in March 2025 that the greeting card business is actually booming. Of the 6.5 billion cards purchased each year, 1.5 billion are for Christmas, followed by Mother’s Day cards (though birthday cards are the biggest non-seasonal seller).

Hallmark and American Greetings dominate, with a combined 80% market share. However, the growth sector is found in the other 20%. Quirky and more personal messages are on the rise.

The BBC recently reported that Christmas card sales in the U.K. are down 22% this year, due to postage costs and the increasing cost of living. Hmm. I suspect that electronic greetings are more likely a factor.

Victorian Christmas Card (Nova Scotia Archives via Wikimedia Commons)

Though Christmas has been around for literally millennia, Christmas cards are a relatively recent phenomenon. Cards arrived on the scene in the mid-19th century as printing processes and industrial papermaking made greeting cards affordable. They streamlined the holiday greeting process, particularly for public persons and businesses.

Do you still send holiday cards? If so, what type do you send? Do you write form letters or insert personal messages, or do you simply write “Dear…” and “Love [or not], …”?

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  1. Timely topic. I sent about 15 which all went to older adults, and I wrote short notes in each one. I’m sitting here looking at the six I received. I remember the days when I couldn’t find enough space to put them all, but then there were also Hallmark card stores at that time too. Yes, I think the idea of sending Christmas cards is dead. It’s kind of sad to see it end, but then again we walk around with a computer in our back pocket all day long where someone just hits a few keys and sends a message out to hundreds. Sign of the times I guess. Merry Christmas!

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    1. I always like to write a short note in each card, too. There may have been a few years in my late 20s or early 30s when I did a letter on Christmas stationery. We’ll get at least a couple more cards this week, but we sure aren’t swimming in them! I suppose there’s that element of wasting resources on short-lived holiday cards, that might bother some folks.

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  2. I remember more as a child, the anticipation of the mail coming each day in December and being the one to go out to the box to retrieve cards. We taped them to the back of the front door and they became a decoration in their own right. When early married in the 80’s I think we still got a significant # of cards and I carried on the tradition of hanging them. Sometimes on doors, but I also crafted a system to hang them from the stair banister since that was visible when you entered the house. Slowly less and less cards came in and less went out until I just stopped sending them in general. We did get one of those “letters” from a friend of my ex husbands for years. My kids as teens found that really funny and had “things” to say about the yearly letter so I guess they were entertained in a rather snarky way. I have no idea the last time I received a card…years ago I’m sure. I did send 2 this year: son/DIL in WA and a previous neighbor who I had a ‘fence chat’ relationship with at my apartment.

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    1. My mom had a lot of creative ways to display cards, too. Since Dad was in the Army and we moved a lot, we always had friends in many places to get cards from. She mostly would hang them from ribbon streamers. Then she would recycle some of the card fronts to use as gift tags in future years.

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  3. I love getting cards! I remember we would tape a string to the wall and hang the cards in a line once all the surfaces were full. Like you, I now have half a dozen given to me by colleagues and friends…none of which came by mail. Each year, I have good intentions of sending to family and friends who live far, but before I know it, it’s a few days before Dec. 25th and then I think it is too late. I think the decline comes with the expense to mail cards, what was once maybe a dollar for card and stamp now may cost upwards of 3 or 4 dollars in combination. Plus, families today have so many nights on the go, that the time to sit and write cards is sorely missing.

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    1. Unboxed cards have gotten rather pricey. And then they generally get tossed after the holidays, unless there’s a special message or a something. And busy! Yes, I can’t believe how often I’ve been out in the evenings lately. Not the norm for us.

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  4. Alas, because my health worsened this year, I sent none. None! I used to send around 50, writing notes in all of them. I’ve never been good about sending photos. We’ve gotten several so I may get around to answering some of them (especially ones not on social media) with a New Year greeting.

    Our son and daughter-in-law have December birthdays. I did get those cards sent!

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  5. We both send and receive far fewer cards than in years past. I have carpal tunnel syndrome, so writing cards is very uncomfortable… Also, postage here just keeps going up and up. I stopped doing my letter after my f-i-l died.

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  6. We only do ecards from the English company known for their cute greetings plus the yearly newsletter, also via email. Paper cards were mailed to the older generation, but in our family, the last was my uncle, who passed away last January. We’ve gotten four cards.

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  7. We have stopped sending cards. I can’t say why, perhaps just lazy. In talking with our local postmaster they said that Christmas mail is a lot lower than it was when she started years ago. I thjink overall it is a dying trend.

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  8. About 7 years ago, feeling pressured for time, I switched to sending e-newsletter greetings. But since I retired this year, I proudly went retro and switched back to sending cards along with a brag newsletter. (Although I try not to make it too braggy.) As a photographer, I couldn’t resist designing my own card. I’ll feature the photo on my blog soon. We sent out about 40. Only have received 11 cards ourselves so far, but there’s still time. Many of my friends send New Years cards instead. As an aside, yesterday we received a card in our mailbox from someone unknown to us (lived in southern MN), and the card was addressed to someone in Alaska. How it made it to us is a mystery. We put it back in the box for redelivery.

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  9. I really enjoy the holiday card tradition as it connects me to faraway family and friends. Although we do see less cards from the next generation, it is a lovely exchange generated by the cards in which the next generation texts and emails responses. I sent out 60 and have received about 40. I don’t, however, buy them at retail stores. I personalize with Snapfish, using photos from the year, and it costs not much more than $1 a card.

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  10. I am trying to cut back to people with whom it is a useful means of keeping in touch because I don’t see them very often, but we still sent about 40 with a similar number back so there is a lot more pruning to do. Because we have been having work done in the house I haven’t even displayed them this year – they would have got covered in plaster dust!

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  11. We still do annual newsletters, some with cards. We travel and move a lot, so it’s a good reminder to touch base with people and, as applicable, share our new address. Fortunately, I’m married to a man that likes doing this. Because we moved recently, we’ve only received 2 cards so far, but we have received numerous newsy emails in response to our letter. It’s a nice tradition and I like to support local artists that make hand made cards.

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    1. I think it’s great to buy handmade cards or even make your own. I have a friend who does that every year. When you move a lot (as I did growing up), it is a good way to keep tabs on people and let them know your current whereabouts.

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  12. I haven’t sent cards for over 20 years, but I well remember the days when my parents would get 50 plus cards which were hung on string hung along the dining room walls (60’s) or later on a red plastic card carousel on a table (80’s). If they were from relatives who lived far away they often contained a yearly letter. Now I get exactly one card from a friend I do see once every 6 months or so, but who carries on the card tradition. But now that you mention it, I see lovely boxes of cards in Winners/Marshalls and wonder who buys them? Complicating things the past two years there have been two national postal strikes in December, further discouraging people from sending greetings in the mail.

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      1. Yes….two years in a row. Meanwhile Canada Post is losing 10 million dollars a day apparently, and most small business have found other couriers, so it was self-defeating in terms of public support. The union has apparently reached an agreement with the government which finally allows weekend package delivery – they are stuck in the dark ages, like the pony express. Meanwhile the nearest city still has door to door delivery in the city centre with posties walking around carrying mail sacks…..I mean who even gets mail anymore? Most subdivisions have a communal box at the end of the street. I only check mine once a week as there’s nothing in it but the odd flyer.

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      2. It’s true that we get more “junk mail” than anything else. Even my bills are electronic, mostly. When I was taking an economics class a couple decades ago, I proposed laying off (with buyouts) most of the U.S. postal workers, cutting delivery to three days a week (perhaps alternating delivery locations), and crucially, lowering first class postage and raising commercial rates. Sending letters and cards should not be subsidizing wasteful junk mail. But no one made me queen of the world…🤷‍♀️

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  13. It looks like Christmas cards may be biting the dust like so many other holiday traditions. For years we would go to the Hallmark store once their boxed cards and individual holiday special cards for loved ones were out, as we always sent them to my grandmother and aunt in Toronto. Our family never did a holiday letter, but we/I have received a few typewritten ones through the years. After my mom passed away in 2010, I took over writing a short letter tucked inside the Easter and Christmas cards to Mom’s lifelong friends, but those friends are all gone now. I can remember my mom displayed the Christmas cards by taping them to the kitchen doorway – we never had that many cards. Some of the prettier cards went on top of a cabinet in the living room. I only send one Christmas card now, to my friend Ann Marie. She is not big on the e-cards (she never opens them), but sends me cards for every holiday, even Valentine’s Day, so I reciprocate. Everyone else gets a Jacquie Lawson ecard.

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    1. Cards are a cheery, but fading tradition. How nice of you to continue sending them to your mother’s friends over the years. I didn’t really know any of my mother’s friends. I still send a card to my aunt. I’m glad that ecards work well for many people. Still brighten the holiday and nothing to throw away.

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      1. Yes, that’s sad about the demise of paper cards, but I guess it saves the trees if you want to look at it that way. I had met all my mom’s friends when we lived in Canada but that was when I was young. They called her sometimes so I chatted with them on the phone through the years. I have had a Jacquie Lawson card account for many years and she does a wonderful Advent calendar every year. I marvel at how these calendars and ecards are created as Jacquie Lawson touts that they are not AI.

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  14. Admittedly, the closest I came to Christmas cards was when I worked for my Aunt at her Hallmark shop. We did gangbuster business on cards back then, and it makes me wonder how all that has changed now.

    In lieu of a Christmas card, I send you Christmas wishes.

    Peace and love

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  15. Interesting you bring this up. I sent about thirty cards this year and have received about two dozen so far. That is about the same as it has been for the last few years. My parents only sent cards to people who sent to them.

    I was in Walmart this year where I was part of a small group of strangers looking for cards (I ran out and just needed a small box). An employee let us know that Walmart was carrying only a small selection of cards this year because no one sends them anymore and to not expect any next year.

    She said this with a straight face to people who wanted to send cards. Haha.

    Times are a changing but I know how fun it is to get mail that’s not junk so I love to send it.

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    1. I do still like “real” mail, too. Now I do mostly thank you cards. And sometimes I get one, too! Got one of the best thank you cards ever yesterday, in fact.

      I’m glad you mentioned what they said at Walmart. They will have the pulse of the shopping public if anyone does.

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      1. I have to wonder if they have the pulse or if they create the pulse. People tend to buy what’s available to them and I notice they are cutting back on product choice all the time. Given the huge chunk of the market they have, they do possess the ability to shape our habits.

        It’s sort of a chicken or the egg question, I suppose.

        Isn’t a good thank you card the very best thing to receive?

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  16. Oh, I am the world’s worst at sending Christmas cards! My husband sends electronic ones. We don’t receive many anymore, either . . . probably because I don’t send them. We received one “brag letter” from friends of mine in Oregon, and they had a lot to brag about, though some sad news, too. The letter was illustrated by sketches and photos by the wife, a talented artist and photographer. The art of the letter (snailmail) seems also to be fading. That’s sad, because email and other electronic contact means are ephemeral. Is anyone working on developing protocols for preserving these ephemeral means of contact?

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    1. Karen, sorry that I did not see your comment earlier (it went to spam). Thanks for telling me about your Christmas card experiences. I also miss the art of writing letters. Remember the anticipation of replies? We live in a world of instant gratification where communication is concerned.

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  17. I used to enjoy posting Christmas cards, with restrictions on when post is delivered and the ridiculous cost I stopped. Mum had a book where each year she ticked of who had been sent a card, a lovely idea I thought. Happy New Year, Eilene.

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      1. Emails don’t really have that same thoughtfulness as a card or letter, do they. Rather sad that society is losing that tradition of hand written communication. The main reason I think is the cost of doing so and especially here as mentioned before the reduction of our postage services.

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  18. I love writing and used to enjoy composing the Xmas letter to post in the cards. But I rarely go to the post office these days and as such, sending Christmas cards becomes a chore. I often send a greeting email or message but only a card to someone special. I received just a handful myself. And I dont’ even open the electronic versions.

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      1. 10 to 1 against? I guess when communication is so easy to facilitate, it seems pointless to send a card with a short greeting. It is sad that the internet has killed another tradition, but things do change as the years pass.

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      2. I’m not certain this sort of change is for the better. Though I consider myself progressive and liberal in some senses, I do feel conservative when it comes to some of the ways technology is making us dumber and more dependent.

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      3. Yes I also have concrrns about dependency on electronics and the enrrgy that powers it. Enhanced pc storage for the private consumer is getting harder to come by. SSD cards impossible to find. What were your specific concerns Eilene?

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      4. We actually lose our ability to do things on e we relegate them to computers: math, wayfinding, solving problems, etc. And then there’s the problem of computers lying and people believing them.

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      5. Really? I love following along maps when I am doing road trips. Well anytime really. I hate that gps only gives you the small picture. I want to see the big picture that is revealed on a map.

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  19. I enjoyed your post about Christmas cards and the facts and numbers. I send out my husband’s business cards to clients along with a box of Frangos. Then I send out cards to a few family members. Other than that, I buy a box or two of cards for those who send us cards. This year I couldn’t manage that because we went on vacation.

    I used to make photo cards of the kids and ordered them through Apple. I’m not sure they have that service anymore. I had a long list and wrote a personal note on each.

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  20. I adore writing and once loved crafting those Christmas letters for the cards. But I hardly visit the post office anymore, turning card-sending into a hassle. Now I opt for greeting emails or messages, reserving cards for special folks only. I got just a few myself—and I skip the digital ones entirely.

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    1. You and others have mentioned the post office. I just stick on a regular stamp and drop them in a post box at some convenient location. I wasn’t aware any special trip to the PO was required. I do go to ours on occasion because I have to ship books or some other package.

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  21. For years, Tom and I bought blank cards and made our own Christmas cards using photos from our National Parks travels and a message stamp for the inside. Sometimes people were surprised with a photo of an alligator or a bear on their Christmas card. One family told us each year the kids guessed what animal would be on the card before opening it. Tom always wrote the Christmas letter and his voice came through loud and clear. The first two Christmases after losing him, I didn’t send cards at all but this year decided I would do it again. I used some of my winter scenery photos this year and wrote the letter. I enjoyed sending them out. I didn’t receive anywhere near as many cards as I sent but that’s okay.

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    1. mvbattelle, I was writing my comment (below) as yours was posting. Just wanted to let you know you aren’t alone on the unique photo on the card. Mine this year had a photo of me on the bow of a sailboat, looking out at the bay where I’d just released my husband’s ashes in a floating, biodegradable urn. I have (another) big road trip planned for next year and was thinking of doing something similar to you – a striking scene from somewhere on my travels. I plan to keep on sending paper cards as long as *I* enjoy doing so. And my condolences on the loss of your Tom.

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    2. I can understand how losing Tom would put a damper on all things holiday for a while. How nice that you’ve revived the joy of making and sending cards and letters. I think having them feature your own photos is extra special.😊

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  22. I sent 54 paper cards and received 30 in the mail – the latter not including ones I get from businesses. Of the 54 I sent, 39 were 5by7 folded photo greeting cards with a big photo on the front and 12 additional photos on the inside and back. This is the third year I’ve done cards like that, although I have been sending paper cards for at least 45 years now.

    I used to buy cards when they went on sale after Christmas (and still have a stash of those I use for folks who don’t get the photo cards). I found I was really picky about what was on the card (snow scenes in particular turn me off) as well as the printed message inside. So, I really enjoy designing my own card.

    I also send an e-newsletter to about 100 people (mostly relatives). It generally has the same photos as those in the printed card, with additional detail, and there is some overlap on who gets the paper cards and the e-newsletter.

    I put the cards I receive for Christmas and New Year on display for an entire year, hanging vertically from ribbons on one of the narrow half-doors into my study. The photo cards are kept beyond that year. I also keep any paper newsletters I get (all but one come with regular cards).

    I guess I’m just old-fashioned – or maybe it’s because my grandmother was a post office window clerk – but I still send paper cards for a lot of other occasions too, especially birthdays. But yes, I think overall, sending paper cards is passé.

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    1. I think it’s great that there are people who still do so much sending of cards and letters at the holidays. I’m sure your recipients really appreciate your thoughtfulness and effort!

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