Week 32: #52Ancestors – Reunion
By Eilene Lyon
Because I was an “Army brat” we rarely gathered with family over the years. We had an occasional Thanksgiving or Christmas at Grandma Halse’s place in Corvallis, which included aunts, uncles, and cousins on my dad’s side.
I met more relatives on Dad’s side when Grandma celebrated her 80th birthday and when my aunt and uncle celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.
I’ve only ever been to one official family reunion. I intended to write about it in 2019, but never got around to it. My second cousin, Bonnie, was the primary organizer, but her brother and I helped out a bit, too. None of us live in Moscow, Idaho, where we held the event.

Aside from Bonnie’s dad and uncle (my mom’s first cousins), I had never met any of the attendees. This was a reunion of descendants of Melville and Sarah Davis (my 2nd great-grandparents). Some of them Bonnie and I had connected with through Ancestry.
We got to visit the Sterling and Clara Davis family farm. It’s no longer in the family, but the owner is an honorary family member and welcomes reunions. We had a history tour of downtown Moscow by someone from the Latah County Historical Society. Bonnie also put together a self-guided driving/walking tour of homes in town that had belonged to Davises at one time.


One of the great things about meeting with these relatives (in addition to getting to know them) was the opportunity to see the family documents and heirlooms they brought.





A highlight was a visit to Texas Ridge to see the Davis homestead. Also in that part of the county, a local gave us a tour of a one-room school that’s been restored to be a community center, and visited a nearby cemetery where a couple Davis children are buried. We also stopped at the Moscow Cemetery to see many family plots.





After the reunion, Bonnie put together a remembrance book.

We had hoped to have another reunion a couple years later, but the pandemic and life just kept it from happening. Maybe in another year or two, we can get it together again.
P.S. I will be taking a break from blogging for the next six weeks. I have a manuscript deadline and then a much-needed vacation.
Wow, that tractor thingy!
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Scary!
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Quite the contraption!
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My dads side used to do family reunions but those stopped years ago when the core group of dads siblings passed. No one picked up the idea after that so I appreciate that your family continues to try Eilene! Best to you as you work to finish your writing and enjoy a break for vacation 🙂
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I enjoyed the experience quite a bit (though one attendee seemed appalled that I’m a “heathen” – I found it amusing). I hope we do it again. Thanks for the well wishes. I have a heck of a lot of editing to get done this month!
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Good luck!!
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Thank you!
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My family did reunions regularly for years, and then it dropped off. What a gem Bonnie is for organizing all this. It would be priceless. Good luck with your writing.
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Yes, it would not have happened without Bonnie, for sure! And thank you. Lots of editing work to be done now.
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What a fascinating family reunion. We hold one each year, I may go every five to 10 years or so. We sit around and eat at our Washington riverfront property. Then some of us go swimming. Nothing at all like yours. Good luck on your deadline and enjoy your time off.
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There are certainly many ways to do a family reunion. This one was probably a bit more involved that most. And thank you.
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Yours did sound very involved and wonderful that people shared knowledge and family treasures. I remember family reunions at our same spot as a child. My mom and the other women seemed to be in a cooking competition for the best pies and fried chicken.
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Oh yum! Since most of us traveled from out of town, we did not have a home cooked spread.
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I do have fond memories of the food!
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Do you have another book in the making? I finished reading Fortune’s Frenzy. It isn’t the typical genre I read, but I thoroughly enjoyed it. You have a smooth cadence to your writing and bringing in the quotes really brought the history to life. The undertakings, financially and travel, were so risky in those days. I can’t believe they did it!!
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Thanks for the kind review of my book! I’m so glad you enjoyed it. The work I’m doing now is a book “for hire” by my publisher. They have a series of books going about pioneer cemeteries in the West. I’m doing the Colorado book. Researching and writing a complete book in 13 months is harder than I imagined!
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I can imagine! I’m sure you will be ready for that holiday.
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I went camping for a couple days, but it’s been pretty intense work. Gonna be good to get away.
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Must have been a really interesting meet up! Good luck with the editing and enjoy your break.
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I did enjoy it quite a bit. Getting to know my extended family has been a big reward of my research.
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It sounds like it was a great reunion—what a large turnout! And enjoy your break from blogging and your vacation.
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I was a real delightful event. And thank you, I will.
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I’ve never been to a family reunion and envy those who gather together to break bread with those they rarely, if ever, see. Enjoy your blogging break and vacation Eilene.
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I’ve only been to the one and almost all total strangers to me beforehand. But it was a fun experience. Thank you, Linda.
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This looks like a wonderful family reunion! I’ve only been to one, on my father’s side. My take away was that these people drank too much. Way too much.
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I was with a bunch of apparent teetotalers!
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That would have been my preference!
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Very understandable.
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Enjoy your holiday, Eilene and I shall catch up with your blogging news when you return.
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Thank you, Suzanne!
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Happy writing and editing and enjoy your time away.
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Thank you, Judy. I do hope it is somewhat fun and not just drudgery!
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Wonderful to see your family reunion and the folks who took the time to attend and connect, Eilene. Great that they brought documents and you visited relevant venues. I gathered with siblings and cousins from my father’s side for a big reunion (89 of us!) recently, and it is heartwarming to embrace and revive family connections.
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Wow! This is big group. I’m happy to hear that people still do reunions. People make themselves too busy for such things, in a lot of cases. It’s work to organize something, for sure.
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How fun for you to get together with your kinfolk. I like that you did some things, instead of sitting across a table from each other and twiddling your thumbs. Enjoy your time off from blogging, will miss you.
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It was totally worth planning all the outside activities. The chatter was fun, too, but only so much this introvert can take!
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This is what they call a shindig, yes?
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Yeah, but no booze. Sigh.
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Sorry to hear that part 😉
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That’s very cool – so glad you had such a wonderful reunion. Seeing those documents must have been an added bonus! Love all the pics of the family sites!
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I was astonished at what people had in their personal collections!
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